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Breakthrough Newsletter>
The Law of Esprit
April 16, 2008
ARTICLE: THE LAW OF ESPRIT BY: MICHAEL RICHARD HANDS,MA Many people believe that the basic issues in wellness are 1) disciplining ourselves to eat well, and 2) exercising regularly. Not true. According to Greg Anderson in his book, The 22 Non-Negotiable Laws of Wellness, "the single overriding objective in wellness is creating constant personal renewal where we recognize and act on the truth that each day is a miraculous gift and our job is to untie the ribbons." I agree. That's the Law of Esprit: living life with joy. I've always held that Optimal Wellness means "enjoying" the many wonders of being alive. True wellness is the ability to generate a joyful stance toward life on a daily basis. Embracing a lifestyle of Optimal Wellness carries with it the exceptional promise that we can know an esprit, a deep satisfaction, in all areas of our life experience. If life is a constant battle against weight gain, a herculean effort of keeping fit, a career filled with struggle, a marriage that is toxic, we have missed wellness. We have missed it because we have missed joy. The Law of Esprit has not been honored. What if you approached wellness from the perspective of joy and not willpower? That, my friend, could be the breakthrough -- the quantum leap -- capable of revitalizing your life! Remember, in life we do not always get what we want or expect. Yet, what we focus on expands. The Law of Esprit recognizes that when we focus on improving ourselves "joyfully" physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually every day, we immediately begin to see three values emerge: 1. Satisfaction: since life becomes primarily a pleasant experience. 2. Creativity: which keeps life interesting and makes us want more of it. 3. Wisdom: which is the collective reward of the "well lived" life. Of course, the opposite is also true. People who focus on how difficult their physical, mental, and spiritual circumstances are then to see like values emerge -- dissatisfaction, despair, and dissonance. Esprit is shifting our awareness to look for the joys that come in small, precious packages. Once we discover those joys, it is then our privilege to make the most of them. I definitely recommend looking for the small joys. They are everywhere. CULTIVATE THIS AWARENESS. Make this your practice. It is the joy of an exceptionally well-made cup of tea or coffee. It's the joy of witnessing a sunrise (go ahead, give it a try and see for youself). It is the touch of a caring hand, the concern of a loving mate, the comanionship of a close friend. So what is the Law of Esprit? A recognition that joy in life, not length of life, is the true marker by which all wellness is measured. How do you measure your life? Journal Reflection Questions 1. On a scale of 1 - 10, how well have I been living the Law of Esprit in my life, career, and relationships. 2. Can I list 10 simple joys that I have built into my every day lifestyle? 3. Do I see any relationship to living the Law of Esprit and my effectiveness in my life, career, and relationships?
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